Tech IndustryOct 25, 2019
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Gambling problem, please advice

Hi All, I have lost most of my savings recently by buying some bad trading options. I went from 350-> 650-> 175 this year. These are actual losses as options have expired now. I was hoping to buy a house this year but looks like I can’t even pay downpayment. Please advise me on how to overcome this gambling problem. I feel that I have cheated my family and I am going into depression. (My wife is not aware of past gains or current losses) YOE:12 TC: ~400k

Amazon Dr. Jones Oct 25, 2019

WTF!

Cisco oldmoney Oct 25, 2019

Yo I know a great divorce attorney. HMU

Uber Stock! OP Oct 25, 2019

She will be upset but I don’t think it will reach this state. She loved when I had nothing 10yrs back (I am coming from humble background)

Cisco oldmoney Oct 25, 2019

Do you think you need rehab? If you need the rush why not just join a startup?

Cisco koala 🐨 Oct 25, 2019

At least now you can utilize this loss to deduct your taxes

Uber Stock! OP Oct 25, 2019

Uber stock is not helping here too, that is also in loss

Microsoft kfmaster Oct 25, 2019

You can use the loss to lower ur taxable income

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Uber Stock! OP Oct 25, 2019

Thanks for comforting words

Microsoft TpzS10 Oct 25, 2019

This is the right advice

Microsoft wgUK51 Oct 25, 2019

Omg..one suggestion is to get the duck out of the app first..close your account and concentrate on reading books and spending time with family..

Uber Stock! OP Oct 25, 2019

I want to do that, but something inside me keep me pushing, this time I will make money. Surely I need do better job on self control.

Oracle 50shydsCly Oct 25, 2019

@op learn from past mistakes. Stop trading options or individual stocks for that matter. Its never too late to start over. Your tc is good so you are good

Amazon bcif84ju7u Oct 25, 2019

Print this chart and put it up next to your monitor to remind you every day

Uber Stock! OP Oct 25, 2019

I want to do that, but I can’t do that home right now and in office I don’t want my coworkers to know abt this

Box smoke_php Oct 25, 2019

Worst idea. One loss should not make you risk averse

Amazon TiCi Oct 25, 2019

Is your wife aware of what was there before?

Uber Stock! OP Oct 25, 2019

Not really, she is not into financials. She is homemaker and she relies on me to take care of it

Amazon TiCi Oct 25, 2019

Then you have nothing to say, just transfer the money into Vanguard and call it a day

Amazon w)6fxe Oct 25, 2019

My journey in crypto: $100k -> $500k -> $0. You just have to stay positive and avoid such mistakes again. Your TC is good, you’ll overcome this.

Uber Stock! OP Oct 25, 2019

Thanks for comforting words.

Google xsLH34 Oct 25, 2019

Best advice I can give (from my own experience) is to stop trading for a while and come back later. If you continue you would want to try to recover your loss, and with that thought in mind you cannot make correct buy/sell decisions. So, stop for a while, forget your loss, stay positive, realize where you made mistakes and come back when you feel better.