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The man I love hates me because I’m Vietnamese
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can you notice a difference in the youthfulness of women when you know they have a past of many nights out drinking?
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Question about women in their 30’s?
Looking for options with pros and cons. Indian on H1B here. Wife is homemaker. No kids. I feel only I should have access to my salary account. I think I have put more effort in life to come this far and she is just reaping the benefits of that without any effort. I am not spending on anything without her knowledge but is it too much to ask from her to trust me? Is it wrong? Wife has asked me to provide access but not insisted on it. I think it’s just a matter of when. If you are in the same boat, please reply how you are handling it.
My spouse has full access. There’s nothing to hide. You made a pact at marriage, why must anything be hidden to the other? You should trust her with anything.
Hes trying to hide his hooker money
During a divorce, you have to declare everything and she will get 50% of it in Cali. Thats the contract (marriage) you signed for.
What an idiot
Have always had a joint account and it's never been an issue. If either of us wants to spend some money on something outside of what might seem typical we just discuss it like grown ups.
What goes into the joint account? Paychecks? You have your own brokerage and 401k stuff tho right?
Paychecks and any other income into joint checking. Most bills are automatically paid from there or our joint credit card. 401ks are separate because that's how they work. Other investment accounts are joint (money market, brokerage). Most day to day stuff goes on the Visa to get miles and gets paid off every other week typically.
Yes it is wrong. She legally owns half your ass. You shouldn’t have married a homemaker if you had such strong feelings towards YOUR money.
Why do you feel only you should have access to your salary account?
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Only you should. Also next time you are horny — her ass is only hers. Keep away.
To add to it, the other way doesn’t work. Your ass is always hers.
Moron. Everytime I open this post I feel like sucker punching the op.
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Twice. At least once in the nads.
Everything you own becomes hers when you marry. But in return, you get her unconditional love
Unconditional?? Meh..
Unconditional love from a woman, funniest thing I’ve heard all week 😂
Get divorced now. You are too selfish to be married.
What’s yours is hers and what’s hers is hers.
Don't listen to this feminist. You're supposed to share finances in a marriage, no his or her account bs
Sorry you don’t speak sarcasm