Ex got engaged recently. Manager has put me on dev plan. Have gained few pounds. Become anti social. Marriage on my mind all the time. Have no motivation left to get out of the dev plan or get a new job or reduce weight. What should I do !? Age 27!
This is 90% of SDEs at amazon
Is that how the SDE levels are assigned? SDE 3 hates themselves more than SDE2?
Eat only banana.
Dude, get your shit together. Your ex won't sponsor your H1 if you're fired. Anti social is ok just concentrate on work and maybe lookout for another job. Job is everything. Without that you're not getting any girl to get married after getting kicked back to India.
What am I missing here? Op didn't mention he was on h1.
That's a known
You're only 27 you've got a lot of time. Chill.
You wanna talk? Pm me
Please talk to a professional... therapist, physician, clergy. I went through almost exactly the same at that age. Wasn’t until I talked to people who knew how to help that it got better. Now I’m married with two kids and doing well in my job. We all need help sometimes.
Stay strong, only you can help yourself no one else can, give it time and move on..
Snap out of it!
Personally I would avoid anything to do with Snap, but that’s just me.