Tired of marriage , but have kids - any real world scenarios?
Please reply not with advice but only if you have been in this situation. How did it go ?
Make it work. Divorce w kids involved is horrible.
Meh. It's not that bad
Sex must be bad?
Are you just tired, or do you also have an unstable environment at home?...if it’s the latter and you can’t seem to fix it, it might be better to get counseling and if that doesn’t work then part ways...but if you’re just tired/bored of the routine then try to get some personal space from time to time and pursue some hobbies...that’ll make you feel less tired/bored in the relationship.
Get counseling. Solo or couple. Do it for the keeeeeeeds
Do a very deep introspection about why you’re unhappy. Is it just about sex and wanting to be with new people? Let me tell you, that gets old after a while and you just get hollow. Contentment starts and ends with you. Externalizing it and blaming a partner or work or sex or whatever is just scapegoating. You need to figure out what you’re living for first (what’s really important to you in either a spiritual or self-actualizing way)) then talk about it with your partner and see if it’s something you can live for together (or if indeed a separation is needed). Believe me, from experience, you don’t want to base major life decisions on temporal physical urges.
@Rowsdower: very well said. Going through the same thing. Realized that l am the only one who can make myself happy. Came across this quote which I think is so simple yet powerful "The simplest way to bring balance to your thoughts and emotions is your unwavering commitment to something"
You’re being a real Deutsche Bank about this
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