In a relationship with a married man
I got drawn into a relationship with a married man. He acted too kind and sweet ..wanted everything( physical, mental, emotional engagement ) and always labelled it as friendship. Have been in this relationship for the past one year or more. Feel like I have literally let myself get used thinking he is a nice man/friend. Alas I feel he was not worthy of a friend .. never kept his words and wasn’t even there during my down moments. Have been broken too badly from quite sometime and can’t focus on my career or health. Any advice ? What should I do next !
Find a nice single guy
This. This helped me avoid serious depression and a fallback into the toxic relationship i was actively trying to get out of at that time. I got rejected by this new love interest eventually and was heartbroken for a little while.. however it helped me see things better. You can choose not to be in a bad relationship..everything is in your control.
Male here. Another suggestion. Get engaged in a new hobby. That will create opportunities to meet new people. This would help you get your mind occupied with something else. Pick a hobby that you are most passionate about. I picked dance and martial arts. I have a growing list of things I am going to try, like singing, learning music, cooking, acting, travel .. Don’t return his calls. Good luck
You deserve better. Leave him.
Tons of men out there especially if you're at a tech firm. That being said...the odds are good but the goods are odd 😉
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Get out. Get a good therapist. Find a good social circle who will stop you from making these mistakes.
How did you think it was gonna end? There would always be someone who would get hurt in this kind of relationship. Leave and cut all connections.
Have respect for yourself and leave
What were you thinking when you started this engagement with a married man? Anyways that man is a dick.
I will never understand this. He became physical with you after your consent and you feel helpless?
Yes good point. Why only the guy is blamed? @OP any justification?
OP never said that they felt helpless, just that this was draining them... they’re allowed to feel whatever they want, stop trying to sensationalize this